Firstly, let me inform you that this post was written, so that you may re evaluate possibilities regarding the relationship or marriage you are into. Although, virtually everyone has deep interest in this aspect of life, but depending on some varying factors, the moves you make, time or resources dedicated in the process may or may not yield the desired fruits. Have you actually taken time to consider the actual determinants of fruitfulness…or have you realized that success is the opposite of failure? So that you can make some necessary amendments regarding your interest. The idea of success or failure varies with people. There are some who believe that failure is opportunity for improvement. However, in relationships and marriages particularly in today’s context, many people desire to be free regarding the ties or bond between them, in order to achieve the ultimate purpose of the affair. Those who fall within this category either lack the virtues or traits likely to facilitate easy blend, togetherness and hopefully complete agreement or may have been biased due to one reason or the other.
In the ideal sense, relationship is supposed to be nurtured into marriage. But the various reasons why people break up, separate or divorce could be caused by mere human excesses, limitations or imperfection. Now consider failure as the direct opposite of success. And if for any reason you violated laws as it applies to the conditions that guarantee fruitfulness in this regard, then you must accept the fact that no other person is more responsible than you, because for every activity, there is a purpose, but you rather ignored or neglected your role in that respect. Or would you give credit to anyone else, if reverse were the case? And here lies some mysteries concerning growth or placement in general.
Are you already involved or you only desire to go into a relationship soon? The question here is why do you consider that relationship important? Also, do you think it’s possible to arrive at the expected end point with that guy? Of course, several people get committed in this way, but it is often vague for them to identify the right thing in that situation. Meanwhile, not everyone in the present generation possesses sound mind in order to ensure the right sense of purpose. In fact, many people of our time no longer want to incorporate discipline into their life style. But without adhering to the principles that bring about organized system of living and the necessary fulfilment, life itself will become relatively worthless. And continuity in nature may not be certain. Now, let us note the subheadings below;
SOME PEOPLE ARE NOT REAL
And there have been varied orientation concerning norms and values. The various system of value have ruined allot of things, particularly in recent times. Think about the secrecy between Loved one’s in recent times. Unlike nurturing relationships towards better experience, some people either get carried away due to personal goals or by influences of unnecessary alternatives.
LACK OF FOCUS
This might be two sided. Everyone embattles the insatiable nature of humanity and this tends to create room for some irrelevant adventures. On the other hand, people exist whose promptings are not in accordance to the actual requirements of the sacred commission i.e ‘Holy matrimony’. Many in this category give flimsy excuses such as they can’t be submissive to anyone… Unfortunately, even some genuine intentions become defeat of purpose due to gross negligence.
RE EVALUATING YOUR ACTIONS
The unique nature of humanity has been underestimated over the years. People easily get carried away due to pressure from the environment. But everyone has unique purpose to actualize. Yet, this has been greatly compromised because of the irony of the ‘Oder of the day’. Yes, everyone belongs to one class or the other, but the wholesomeness of DESTINY FULFILMENT requires sound mind, so that the course of affairs may proceed without unwanted experience.
SACRIFICE
There is a responsibility that people owe each other in an affair. But many people rather lay more emphasis on their benefits instead of their actual responsibility. Do you know that everyone desires to be loved passionately? Therefore, you don’t have to allow pride .i.e. the feeling of importance to instigate disharmony in the course of affairs. And nothing to gain if you’re believing that dating is a hobby. You have to wake up now and reframe your mindset towards the obligations most likely to facilitate bliss in that awesome relationship.
THE APPROVAL OF GOD
I am convinced that most people of our time think about life as something anyone could manipulate. Yes, you are quite aware that mankind has will power, but the idea of divinity should not be far from your watchwords, to enable you aspire in line with the Oder of events involving you. In other words, the choices that people make might be worthless regarding the plan and purpose of the almighty God. And it is very pertinent to be convinced that your affair is supported by God. Don’t be deceived, human beings are sometimes away from the actual requirements of situations… But everything has been established in the beginning.
Finally, I want to declare that your core purpose needs not to be compromised in any capacity, believing that the most important lessons of life are embedded in mysteries. And I enjoin you to digest the points I Illustrated under these subheadings. Therefore, no more stagnation or failure due to vague circumstances. Please follow my posts herein i.e. fortune project.org in order to learn more about family life or relationships in general.
