Hello beloved, I am glad to welcome you heartily to this interesting program. Firstly, I want to state here that it is a rare privilege for you to come in contact with this kind of message. Personally, I wouldn’t have compiled an article of this kind, so that anyone might have access to it. Already, virtually everyone believes that allot of things had gone wrong and that it is impossible for them to return back to normal. But somehow it became a burden in my heart having observed the cravings of people in our generation. The truth is that no one actually has the power to change the trend. Unfortunately, the ups and downs in relationships and marriages in recent times is more or less hand writing on the wall concerning how the future generations will be. And no one will ascertain how the bad and the ugly will affect family life thereafter. Hence this piece of information.
However, I enjoin you to patiently grasp the points I will illustrate under some subheadings. And I’m aware that diverse opinions will arise in their ways of responses, but whether it sound very polite or not, the primary goal of this message is to inculcate sound moral virtue in the minds of our youths out there. Therefore don’t feel obsessed about this if you are already an adult. Maybe you can use it as a pieces of information to carry out your parental or guardian role more effectively. What can you say about the value system in respect to family line in today’s context? Below are the subheadings to back up my illustration on the above subject.
THE CAUSES OF SEPARATION AND BREAKING UP ARE LINKED TO BETRAYALS
The simple truth about love affairs is that no one feels happy to get separated or break up with his or her beloved. But many are taken unaware. They are beguiled against their wishes. And these situations are often associated with dishonest moves and betrayals. Unfortunately, there are usually scores to settle, even though it is a way of displaying their craftiness. But these stories would be relatively inconsequential to the one who makes nice choice at the onset and pays the prize for a successful / fruitful affair. Unlike yesterday, the female genders now want to compete with their male counterparts in virtually all respect. And you will agree with me that they are more likely to walk away from a serious relationship. After all, they scarcely bear responsibilities except in rare cases in a marriage union where they already have children.
LIVING ON DOUBLE STANDARD
One of the great risks associated with dating a number of people is the issue of unnecessary comparison and double standard. Obviously, most successful relationships involves caring and this takes different dimensions depending on who is involved. But when situation arise, some people quickly switch over to the other person believed to be better than the one they are already committed with. Rather than resolving their differences they prefer to abandon the whole saga they possibly caused. Moreover, the need to resolve the differences could make one worthy of certain benefits.
Hey dear, think about the relationship you are into whether it has been smooth all through, but if other wise, what effort do you make, in order to meet the ultimate purpose of the union? But some people, mostly ladies exist whose desire are to sap their beloved and always raise alarm, complain bitterly of not well taken care of, whereas, they always shy away from their own responsibilities. These people are usually not satisfied and considers alternative measures as the way out rather than been committed to finding lasting solution to their situations.
THE REAL NATURE OF WOMEN
Many young people are filed with pride and ego. They scarcely tolerate people. But they require others to tolerate them. In reality, women are very emotional. Their senses of judgments are more about issues of the moment, but this sometimes make them ignore or neglect the actual purpose of a union.. In any case, everyone is expected to imbibe the habit of REAL COMMITMENT, so that the atmosphere could be devoid of unfair play. Though, statistics haven’t shown the percentage of either men or women who are behind the incessant breaking up and separation that have gradually become a norm in today’s world. Notwithstanding, the women seem to be more flexible than their male counterparts. And I admonish you that is reading this post to disregard any interest at stake and learn to be FOCUSED and be able to affirm some important decisions in this regards.
THE IMPORTANCE OF OBEDIENCE AND DISCIPLINE
Personally, I have made attempt to discover the actual role that both man and woman can play in order to protect the course of an affair or ensure continuity without controversies. Unlike the idea of ‘anyhow’ or playing to defeat your beloved, you could be willing to revitalize virtues and traits that could protect the bond. Without controversy anyone can accomplish the purpose of life, if there will be consciousness in respect to wholesome affair. or What does it takes to be the real help meet which you ought to be as a natural woman?
THE ORIGINAL PLAN AND PURPOSE OF GOD
In reality, women were created to complement the lives of the men. The feminine nature of an average woman makes them more or less pet to the men. They are not supposed to be associated with the whole hustles and struggles which contradicts that which is expected of them by their beloved as it is in today’s world, but the situation is far from the original plan of the creator. Although, this has taken quite a long time and the trend cannot be reversed anymore. Yet, women need to be reminded that there is clear difference between them and their male counterparts. Sometime ago, I asked a certain woman a question and I want to use this medium to reveal what the question was as it relates to this post. I inquired as I wanted to know how women feel in marriages seeing others, particularity those that wanted them in relationships or marriages in the latter days of their lives. And you could be a witness that the ability to attract the males to themselves is a contributing factor against norms in this respect.
The truth of the matter is that majority of them keep memories of events and they always want to go with the ready one even when they already have very serious commitment. Anyone who cannot make them have the most of the moment is either instigating contrary experience or something else. And today’s contexts has been characterized with desires towards selfish ambitions. Everyone wants to play as a winner. Yet, they could change the scenario by virtue of honesty, sincerity and faithfulness to their claimed beloved. Therefore, getting married as a virgin could attract the best result as long as they might be willing to satisfy the conditions or possibly meet the ultimate purpose according to the original plan of the creator.
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