The flexibility of the female gender is behind the lost dignity of mankind.
Firstly, flexibility in this context implies unnecessary switches. i.e. the eagerness to leave a relationship or marriage at will. Maybe you too have observed the cause of failed relationships and marriages. Obviously, the cases vary from people to people depending on situations. But generally, most issues of breaking up / separation are caused by the adamant nature of people but mostly the female genders who always wanted to be begged even if they are wrong and usually walk away freely having very little or nothing to lose. Sometimes, they disregard the course of their commitments and prefer to go away according to their wishes. When this is viewed, in order to identify the reason behind such promptings, then you’ll notice that their courage as the case may be have been the fact that they don’t have anything to loose. After all, the much responsibility for a successful affair is expected to be man’s burden.
Supposing the female genders have serious responsibilities to bear such as providing money and other materials to show how much they care, probably the fear of losing their financial commitments and other necessary inputs could redress such moves. Unfortunately, virtually everything that make man woman relationship worthwhile had been considered the duty of man. In most cases, they make provision of those things, in order to make woman appear lofty and comfortable. But these acts of caring are often used against them, particularly when misunderstanding ensues.
Of course, cases abound whereby the same gift items, phone and others which was provided by a man was used against him for hookups with other guys. Or how can it be explained that the material which was provided for the purpose of easy communication was soon used to connect other male counterparts? In fact, if the female genders have some financial commitments towards their male partners, it would have been considered risk to double date in order to avoid running at loss. But today, reverse is the case and they either walk away easily because it doesn’t cost them anything to enter a new relationship.
These unnecessary switches of the female genders is responsible for the drop in values in respect to family life because most times the man who wants to achieve the fruit of his labor is considered weak by the treacherous lady who desires to leave rather than remaining faithful or indebted. This debate was inspired from lifestyle in an average African setting, taking case study from any town or city in southern Nigeria. Before you take a bold step here, i.e. to comment on this, first consider the implications of the ignored cases of unfaithfulness, insubordination and other excesses that have ruined relationships and marriages. Yet the popularity of a (semantic crime) “gender equality” has been on increase. No wonder both the great and small are caught up in the web of broken relationship and marriages and single parenthood is gaining popularity every day by day.
In a related development, which of the popular religions declared this as basic truth? In other words, both Christianity and Islam have man as superior but the trend of civilization is gradually reversing the whole thing. This debate erupts due to the eagerness to know what is behind failed relationships and marriages. Without bias, it could be identified that the willingness to leave a relationship or marriage at will is common among the females and this is owning to the fact that it is always expected that any man who loves them will show love and care through the provision of money and other material things. However, this has encouraged abuses by the majority of those who lack self-control due to the desire to walk away without ensuring balance before been prompted to get the same or more from others. Maybe, this is behind the scenes (prostitution) among the female genders.
Meanwhile, you need to be convinced that the possible character reformation of the female genders could go a long way to restoring the lost dignity of mankind. Therefore, your utmost cooperation is solicited. Though, we have two categories of human beings. And I’m quite sure that the antagonists will not permit positive response in this regard. However, don’t forget to forward this to someone else. Hopefully, this can trigger a kind of character reformation that could cleanse the flintiness caused by unwholesome affairs in our generation.
Please drop your contribution at the comment section.
God bless you.
